Thoughts Landmarks and Why We Reward Ourselves For Them (Also How I Plan to Reward Myself)
Do you ever stop to wonder why in our society we view ten years as a significant and special amount of time? Why ten? What makes ten special? Is it the cyclical nature of ten, that every 10 years numbers reset at zero? Do we just like seeing that zero come back around? Is it because we have 10 fingers and ten toes? If we had more, or fewer, fingers, would we observe the passage of time differently? Why is it every ten years we consider it a "landmark" birthday*? Why is every ten years a landmark anniversary? * Okay. Let me clarify that. It's a landmark birthday before age ten and after age twenty-one. Otherwise, at least in our culture, we tend to view landmarks as sixteen, (driving age), eighteen (voting age), and twenty-one (drinking age). I am no exception to this rule of course. I saw birthdays thirty and forty as significant, just as I saw my tenth wedding anniversary significant. When I hit the ten y...