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Are We All at Amazon's Mercy?

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(There is a less polite way of phrasing the title, but I opted for something less juvenile.) Can we live without Amazon?  Well, of course we can. Amazon isn't necessary for survival - at least not yet. Even so, it seems every day my fear grows that more of our lives are being outsourced to Amazon. It is beginning to feel as if it is by design. I am trying my hardest not to use Amazon if I don't have to. I try to find independent alternatives. I almost never buy Amazon clothing unless it's some novelty item for a costume or something similar that's hard to find elsewhere. I use the Bookshop.com and its associated app for my e-reading. For hard copies I use the library and the used bookstore down the street. For everyday necessities like toiletries and household goods. I buy from as many DTC brands as possible. I buy the bulk of my groceries at the farmers' market. In the old world, this seemed easy. It was possible. It wasn't stressful.  Now we have tariffs, risi...

The Maine Thing

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Over the past twenty-five years, Kevin and I have tried to mark significant anniversaries with some kind of extravagant indulgence - usually in the form of a special vacation. We maintain our aspiration to make sure each trip has the potential to top - or at least equal - the last one.  With that in mind, we managed to create some diverse experiences for ourselves. For our fifth anniversary in 2006, we spent an extended weekend with a friend at her timeshare in Orlando and I saw Disney World for the first time . For our tenth anniversary in 2011 we realized our long held dream of staying on a horse farm in Tuscany . We celebrated our fifteenth anniversary in Hawaii, which also helped us with our goal of visiting as many national parks as possible (in this case Volcanoes). Unfortunately, our twentieth in 2021 was a dud due to COVID, so we were determined to make twenty-five extra special to make for that. Choosing a destination wasn't easy. We had all kinds of ideas - from taking a...